Is Restriction Driving Your Obsessive Food Thoughts? What Therapy Reveals

A woman at a computer, distracted by hunger, illustrating how restriction can drive obsessive food thoughts.

TL;DR If food is constantly on your mind and you’re struggling to focus on anything else, the cause may be simpler than you think. You’re likely not eating enough. Restriction triggers a primal survival response that redirects the brain’s attention toward food. It can lead to obsessive thoughts, irritability, and difficulty concentrating. These are predictable …

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Eating Disorder Recovery When Grieving: A Therapist’s Perspective

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TL; DR Grief is one of the most powerful threats to eating disorder recovery, and one of the least talked about. Written from personal experience, this blog explores how the sudden loss of a mother tested years of hard-won recovery from emotional eating and bulimia. And what it actually took to stay the course through …

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Home for the Holidays: Does Your College Student Have an Eating Disorder?

A mother and daughter sitting on a bed, illustrating how parents can spot an eating disorder in a college student home for the holidays.

TL; DR The holidays can be the first opportunity parents have to notice changes in their college student that may signal an eating disorder. Eating disorders often disguise themselves as “healthy habits,” making them easy to miss until they’ve taken a stronger hold. Warning signs include noticeable weight changes, food avoidance or rigidity, increased exercise …

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College Weight Gain: Don’t Fear The Freshman 15!

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Trying to avoid the “Freshman 15”? Read this first. TL;DR The “Freshman 15” is more myth than reality. Research doesn’t support that most college students gain fifteen pounds, and the fear surrounding it does far more harm than the weight gain itself ever could. What often goes unmentioned is that some weight gain during the …

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Why We Recommend Six Months of Demonstrated Readiness Before College

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TL; DR When it comes to sending a young adult with an eating disorder off to college, six months of demonstrated recovery is recommended. Summer break simply doesn’t replicate the academic pressure, social dynamics, and independence of college life, making it an unreliable measure of true college readiness. Six months allows enough time for recovery …

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7 Reasons You Should Eat When You’re Not Hungry

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TL;DR “Only eat when you’re hungry” is one of diet culture’s most deeply ingrained rules, and one of the most harmful for people recovering from eating disorders. The truth is, there are many valid reasons to eat even when hunger isn’t present, including: Eating disorder recovery: following a structured meal plan helps restore hunger and …

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Nutritional Supplement Shakes in Eating Disorder Recovery: Expert Insights

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TL; DR Nutritional supplement shakes play a vital role in eating disorder recovery by helping restore nutritional health. These shakes provide a high-calorie, nutrient-dense liquid option for those struggling to consume enough food, especially early in recovery when feelings of fullness can be challenging. Popular brands like Boost and Ensure offer various formulations, including dairy …

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Is Your Young Adult With an Eating Disorder Ready for College?

A group of college students walking, talking, and laughing together, illustrating college readiness after an eating disorder.

First published in October 2015 by Dr. Lauren Muhlheim, Psy.D., CEDS-C, and Katie Grubiak, RDN. Updated October 2026. TL; DR Transitioning to college can be especially challenging for young adults with eating disorders. The stress of new environments, social pressures, and lifestyle changes can exacerbate their struggles. To assess readiness, it’s crucial to evaluate their …

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Research on the Family Meal in FBT: The Impact of Parental Direction

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TL; DR Family-Based Treatment (FBT) is the leading outpatient therapy for adolescent eating disorders, particularly anorexia. A key component is the family meal, where parents actively encourage their teens to eat, often under the observation of a therapist. Research with 21 families revealed that direct prompts (like urging teens to eat specific foods) were more …

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Five Reasons Parents Should Be Included In Their Child’s Eating Disorder Treatment

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TL; DR Including parents in the treatment of children and adolescents with eating disorders is essential for effective recovery. Here are five compelling reasons: 1. Debunked Myths. Historical views blaming parents for eating disorders have been disproven, shifting the focus to inclusive care. 2. Best Practices. Current clinical guidelines advocate for family involvement, emphasizing that …

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