7 Reasons You Should Eat When You’re Not Hungry

Drawing of two women holding colorful ice cream cones, illustrating eating for pleasure and connection in eating disorder recovery.

TL;DR “Only eat when you’re hungry” is one of diet culture’s most deeply ingrained rules, and one of the most harmful for people recovering from eating disorders. The truth is, there are many valid reasons to eat even when hunger isn’t present, including: Eating disorder recovery: following a structured meal plan helps restore hunger and …

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Supporting a Loved One with Emetophobia: Guidance From a Therapist

Drawing of a couple in a tender embrace, eyes closed, illustrating how to support a loved one with emetophobia, the fear of vomiting.

TL; DR Emetophobia is an intense fear of vomiting that can severely limit a person’s life, leading to avoidance of various situations and activities. If you have a loved one struggling with this phobia, here are key ways you can provide support: Educate Yourself: Understanding emetophobia helps you empathize with their struggles and recognize it …

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FBT Meal Strategies Gleaned from Ziplining: A Therapist’s Perspective

Dr. Lauren Muhlheim on a zip line, the experience behind her FBT meal strategies for parents.

TL; DR In her insightful piece, Dr. Lauren Muhlheim uses a zip-lining experience as a metaphor to illustrate how parents can support their children with eating disorders during family-based treatment (FBT). She highlights key strategies that can ease the anxiety surrounding mealtimes, akin to facing the fear of jumping from a plane. Physical Placement: Parents …

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Lactose, Dairy, and Eating Disorder Recovery

Dairy foods, for an article on lactose intolerance, dairy, and eating disorder recovery.

The Milky Way: Why We Encourage Inclusion of Dairy in Eating Disorder Recovery by Shelly Bar, MD, KatieGrubiak, RDN, and Lauren Muhlheim, Psy.D. Dairy is tasty and good for you. Despite this, there are a lot of folks who are scared of it. You may have eliminated dairy from your diet in pursuit of better …

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FBT Treatment Team Members

Purple Scrabble tiles spelling "FBT Treatment Team," the therapist, dietitian, and doctor who support Family-Based Treatment.

Family-based treatment (FBT) is the leading evidence-based treatment for teens with anorexia nervosa and bulimia nervosa. In an ideal world, every person with an eating disorder would have access to a full treatment team. This team could include a therapist, a dietitian, a medical doctor, and a psychiatrist. However, manualized FBT calls only for a …

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This Halloween, Serve Candy to Your Teen in Recovery

Halloween candy, illustrating serving candy to a teen in eating disorder recovery.

A Family-Based Treatment (FBT)-approach Halloween can be scary for teens with eating disorders for the wrong reason: the candy! Most teens with eating disorders are only willing to eat a restricted range of foods. Expanding this range is an important goal of treatment, with the reintroduction of fear foods being a key step. Candy tends …

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Exposure in the treatment of Eating Disorders

Exposure therapy is widely recognized as a necessary (and sometimes sufficient) ingredient of treatment for most of the anxiety disorders including phobias, panic disorder, and obsessive compulsive disorder.  Anxiety is a core psychological feature of anorexia nervosa and bulimia nervosa.  However, instead of being afraid of heights, speaking in public, having a heart attack, or contamination, individuals with eating disorders are primarily afraid of food, eating, and shape and weight.

Both cognitive-behavioral therapy and family based treatment, two empirically validated treatments for eating disorders, employ exposure techniques.  Exposure works through the process of habituation, the natural neurologically-based tendency to get used to things to which you are exposed for a long time.   During exposure, habituation occurs as people acclimate to their fear and come to realize that nothing actually dangerous is occurring. Habituation promotes new learning of safety, tolerance of fear feelings, and extinction of the fear avoidance urge. 

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