Parents, Don’t Let Your Kids Diet!

Purple Scrabble tiles spelling "Just say no to kids' diets" for an article urging parents not to put children on diets.

Updated July 2023. Previously published in 2019 as a response to the Weight Watchers Kurbo app for kids. In January 2023, the American Academy of Pediatrics released guidelines for treating children and teens in larger bodies with “intensive health behavior and lifestyle treatment”–what I call a diet. In case you are tempted to go down …

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Do I Need to Quit X to Stay in Recovery?

A girl in a swimsuit looks away from the pool at a swim meet, for an article on whether you must quit a sport to stay in recovery.

By Carolyn Hersh, LCSW, CEDS-S Clinical Supervisor A difficult decision in recovery is knowing when to let go of an activity–or even a job–that could potentially re-ignite the eating disorder. As a therapist I find myself guiding my clients through exploration of their values. Some come to realize that the sport or career path they …

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Nana’s Poundcake, Food, and Cultural Connection

Nana's poundcake on a white plate, for a post on food, family, and cultural connection.

Cultural Connection–Through Food Cultural Connection happens through food. Food for us comes from our relatives, whether they have wings or fins or roots. That is how we consider food. Food has a culture. It has a history. It has a story. It has relationships. –– Winona Laduke Food is about more than sustenance. It is …

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Sweatin’ for the Wedding: Say, “I don’t.”

The feet of a bride in a white gown and a groom in black shoes, for an article on saying no to "sweatin' for the wedding."

by Carolyn Comas, LCSW, CEDS-S Wedding Diet? Just say No! In November 2018, my boyfriend proposed to me. It was one of the most exciting days of my life thus far. With a proposal comes the next exciting chapter: wedding planning. For many brides-to-be, this entails finding that perfect gown. Sadly, although not surprising, once …

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Weight Gain in Bulimia Recovery

Purple Scrabble tiles spelling "Weight gain in bulimia recovery" for an article on what to expect about weight when recovering from bulimia.

by Elisha Carcieri, Ph.D., therapist at EDTLA One of the hallmark features of eating disorders is placing a high value on body weight and shape in determining one’s self-worth. In addition, people with eating disorders often believe that diet, exercise, or–in the case of bulimia nervosa–purging, can control body shape and weight. Individuals with bulimia …

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A Better Resolution For Exercise

A larger-bodied woman dances freely outdoors, illustrating joyful movement in eating disorder recovery.

by Kristen Wright, LMFT, a former therapist at EDTLA Did you make a New Year’s Resolution to start a new fitness routine? Those “thirty days of push-ups or sit-ups” or “do 15 of this and 12 of that a day to your ideal body in no time,” might sound appealing. But you may have already …

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Fat Positive Photography

A larger-bodied woman in a swimsuit doing a yoga pose on the beach, an example of fat-positive photography.

I’ve recently returned from the Association for Size Diversity and Health (ASDAH) Conference and I’m reflecting on all I’ve learned. I’ve wanted to share and further explore Substantia Jones’ keynote, “Fat Visibility Through Photography: the Who, the How, and the Hell Yeah.” Jones is a photographer, a “Fat Acceptance Photo-Activist,” and the proprietor of the …

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On Buying Bigger Clothes: The Tale of Nana and Her New Shoes

The author's 103-year-old grandmother walking with her walker, for an essay on buying bigger clothes as our bodies change.

Nana’s New Shoes–And the Metaphor of Buying Bigger Clothes Recently, I went to visit my grandmother, who is almost 103 years old.  She was complaining of leg pain. She asked me to help her put on her shoes.  I tried really hard.  But in her sweltering apartment (she can’t stand any temperature below 80), I …

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To the Family Member Who Worries I Am Not Helping Your Loved One’s “Weight Problem”

Learn About Our HAES Approach Dear Family Member, I understand your fears. I get it. You want the best for your loved one. You want him or her to have the best and healthiest and fullest life possible. I do too. You believe that helping your loved one to lose weight will help achieve these …

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On Living 100 years in Diet Culture

The author's grandmother standing by her walker with other people, for an essay on living 100 years in diet culture.

I recently went to visit my 102-year-old grandmother. In 1921, at the age of six, Nana emigrated from Russia to Kansas City. She entertains her living facility with her piano playing and loves to talk all day. She continues to leave sassy messages on my phone. She sends thoughtful gifts to her great grandkids. With …

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